Sunday, October 5, 2008

High Time We Start Disrespecting Our Elders

OK, I do not advocate retorting every few sentences, but we need to realize that respect is like money. You have to earn it to receive it. Your age or social status does not automatically grant you access to money or respect. I sickens me every time people talk down to us youngsters about the importance of respecting elders. What for? I completely understand and agree with the fact that our are far more wider than us due to their experience and the knowledge they have gained over the decades. After all, they have already committed and learned from many mistakes that all of us do all the time. We must profit from their experience. That's exactly what they wish too. But what about those who have remained stupid despite their years? What about their egoistic bastards who refuse to learn? What about those sclerotic morons who refuse to look at newer, different point of views? Should we respect them too? Or will it be better to ask them to shut up? I prefer they latter. I have seen endless number of geriatric entities going around sermoning young people to respect them without caring two hoots for the fact that respect is to be commanded and not demanded. Beggars, fuck off! I do not care a damn about those who are liked by many senior people (including our parents' generation, not just our grand-parents' generation) for being very respectful towards their elders as respecting elders says nothing about your intentions and character. You may be doing that out of sycophancy just to earn brownie points. Or just for giving the impression that you are well-bred. I prefer people who respect everybody impartially. Someone who respects their elders and juniors equally is someone who truly has class. It is easy to respect people who are elder to you, who have a elevated social or economic status as compared to yours or those who are simply seem stronger than you in terms of sheer physical strength. But what is seriously cool is respecting those younger than you, those less economically / socially privileged as compared to yourself or simply those smaller in size than you. That's strong character! That's cool! I won't go around faking respect for people if they do not deserve it just because they were born before me. You haven't done me a favor.

5 comments:

Volksgrenadier said...

bean bags stepping on ur toes?

Natalia said...

What do you mean Shreyas? Why can't I access your blog?

Volksgrenadier said...

bean bags in internet slang for old people who arent of any use.
u need to enter ur email id , the yahoo one, to access my blog.

Natalia said...

I don't have a problem with old people and I definitely don't find most to be useless. But there are these menopausal idiots who make me feel like exterminating them!

Volksgrenadier said...

we dreamat night, wake up; think of it as vanity and leave it.
Old people dream by day and go to great lenths to achieve their dreams. Hence they are all equally retarded and must be exterminated (unless they are exceptionally rich or talented) :)

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